Thursday, January 30, 2020

VOICES OF LOUD MAD MEN

                                                                          




ASPIRE to PERSPIRE what is REQUIRED of you to ACQUIRE. That’s the kind of sweet quotes you get from motivational speakers especially when it comes to topics like financial prosperity, living a debt free life or even fulfilling purpose. Indeed, most of these motivational speakers possess oratory prowess and when they add up words like “aspire to acquire...”, people get turned up to take actions. In fact, listeners react on the spot exclaiming words like “preach!” “word!” “Iyen deep sir!”


Motivational speakers are so eloquent and convincing that at the point they speak, people feel if they don’t take actions on the instructions of the speaker, it have finish for them in life. However, not all the things motivational speakers say are applicable or can yield positive results in the real world.
As much as some motivational speakers are successful to a reasonable extent, you still find a whole lot of them living way below the level of prosperity they preach and you are tempted to ask “oluwa wetine dey occur?”. There are some of them that what you earn from your legit hustle in two weeks can feed them for a month. Then one begins to wonder why the principles are not working for them abi they are just not applying it?


I was in a meeting sometime ago where a motivational speaker was energetically giving us 12Ts to acquiring wealth. As people were shouting “deep” “angle” “word”, the guy sitting next to me was just hissing; in my curiousity, I asked why he was reacting that way. Local man said all na scam. He lives in the same neighbourhood with our guest speaker who on more than two occasions was harassed by his landlord for not paying his house rent. He also said he was under a teaching where another speaker gave similar principles; he was challenged and he decided to abide by the principles. Long story short, baba said he ran into debt as a result of abiding by the principles.  Mad ooo, I began to think if there was something wrong with the 12Ts of acquiring wealth that made it impossible for this guy to ASPIRE and PERSPIRE what is… you know what, never mind. Or it was not principles he needed at that point but advice from people grounded in his area of hustle. Apparently, not every principle is applicable in our environment.
                                                                                                                                                                                
                     
Most of these motivational speakers just have sweet mouth, neither practicing the principles they teach nor living the life their principles ASPIRE to ACQUIRE. Such speakers understand that their eloquence and ability to play with words get their audience challenged and so motivational speaking is their own hustle. If they don’t say these words, no matter how infeasible it sounds they are going to run out of business. So they give tips like “I started my business with #900 and it has grown to be an empire”. I’m not saying there are no motivational speakers that address real life issues. My point is that in reality, it is not all the principles motivational speakers give that can work everywhere for everyone. In fact, some of them can’t adopt some of their own principles; they just have to say it. After all, it is easier said than done.


                                                                                                 
I’d recommend that you get familiar with those who have excelled in your field of interest so they can give you practical advice on how to get you to indeed ACQUIRE what you DESIRE. No amount of motivational quotes can help you as much as the advice of those who have gone ahead of you in your field; advice borne out of experiences of reality.  A wise man once said 'but why trust the knowledge of a brickmaker about jewels? Would you go to the breadmaker to inquire about the stars? No... you would go to the astrologer, if you had power to think.’ Above all, the place of God cannot be overruled; commit your hustle unto His hands.  Pray, seek advice and work.



63 comments:

  1. This is really deep... I was shocked when I saw a motivational speaker who just delivered a speech hustling to get a Danfo then I had to look twice to confirm if he really was the speaker. Propably their motivational talks doesn't motivate them. Oluwa wetin dey motivate? Elevate àwọn motivational speaker so their life can jollicate. Nice work Gaptitiudes

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  2. The last paragraph. Nothing but the truth.
    Nice one

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  3. Mmm,u can't acquire a thing except it is given from above. prosperity is beyond words,even a good orator doesn't understand. It good to listen to them but it better to have sense cos a blind man can't lead another blind man. If u want to make it,go to ur source don't let anybody give u water as juice and it better to get books of those, u can't see it working in their life.

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  4. Hmmm... Keep it up bro. Nice piece

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  5. Amazing idea.
    Asides motivation, the place of God in prosperity cannot be overruled.
    Thanks for sharing this Gap.

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  6. Thought-provoking piece.
    Well said!

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  7. Motivation is good, yes but motivation without God's input is failure, even motivational speakers cannot be motivated without God. Everyone's life is different,what work for Mr A might not work for Mr B so there is no laid down rule in achieving success or in doing anything at all.

    Thanks for sharing.

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  8. Lovely Read, well dotted with humour too. Great Job Ade, please don't stop.

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    1. Thank you Sinmi Williams. Coming from you, I'm honoured

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  9. Nice piece Gap,hmm,commit ur hustle unto God's hand.

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  10. I love the saying from the wise man. Very thoughtful. Fam, I've read articles, yet yours stands outstanding. Salud !

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  11. Hmm...Gap, this is deep. God safe us. Most of these motivational speakers often dish a "one shawl fits all" approach instead of an individual-tailored approach. At some point, everyone has to become their own motivational speaker.

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  12. Nice write up egbon gap��
    We need more of this because eleyi tun deeper ju deep lò

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    1. Thank you Samantha. I visited your blog and I like your article on girls and football. Lovely

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  15. I avoid motivational speakers like a plague. Especially those so called relationship experts.

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  17. You raised some valid points above. But let's look beyond the scam artists who refer to themselves as motivational speakers. Real motivational speakers still have a role to play in the lives of those who fuck with them and that's not a bad thing. You try, my guy.

    N.

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    1. Baba Alaye. I appreciate your comments. Thank you boss

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  18. Motivational leaders can mislead sometimes, that's why we have to be conscious of who we listen to and choose which of the advice to follow. Nice saying.

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  19. I found myself rolling reading this. My service year was filled with motivational speakers that came with 10 tips on how to become Dangote after service year. I'm wondering why he hasn't become the next Dangote 😀

    Gaptitude. Thumbs up.

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  20. I've always thought that some motivational speakers were just really good salesmen.
    Great writing man. Well done

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  21. This is so true.... awon I made my first million at the age of 17😂😂😂

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  22. Lol, awon to motivational speakers

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  23. This is on point and very deep. The only Gap in research.

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  24. Lol, honestly some motivational speakers would make you ask questions like "Oluwa, wetin dey manifest, what have I been doing with my life?".

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    1. Thank you Sammie Olamide. Let's not work with others' clock and get depressed

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  25. A bite of many of the full package of the reversals in our society. We have many 'talkers' but few 'livers'. Motivational speakers are not almighty in themselves. Promotion comes not from the East or West... Not even from man! I subscribe to meeting people that have value to add to you: standing on the giant's shoulder. I subscribe to meeting the source of all inspiration who can take you beyond the limit of man. The best of man's experience is limited in itself...


    Good work!

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  26. About time we ditched motivation and opted for inspiration. Nice one Gap!

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  27. Motivation is business, when they talk, you sieve out what works for you

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